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Sometimes you are in a relationship with a guy who seems like an amazing boyfriend, the kind of man who you could see yourself with for the rest of your life.
So what happens if you’re in a relationship with that guy, but he seems to be a “commitment phobe”?
He practically lives with me and I’ve never even seen his place! I love you, baby, but I really like things the way they are now. '”His own negative self-beliefs about commitment, love and relationships will guarantee that this relationship won’t last.
Plus, he’s chasing you so he must be trying to win you over… That is, until you suggest things like meeting your parents or you talk about your future together or even what you want from the relationship.
That’s when he pulls away, emotionally withdraws and starts flaking. ” He comes up with excuses for why he either doesn’t want to talk about it, or he just gives you excuses for why he doesn’t want *that* kind of relationship with you.
The former loves the feeling of togetherness and can't wait to walk down the aisle, buy an expensive cake and treat 200 people to dinner in order to cement their love.
The latter on the other hand, holds the belief that something better is always around the corner.